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Put The Past Behind

By |November 1st, 2018|Categories: Blog, Divorce, Emotional Pain|

Put The Past Behind! I often hear a client say "I thought I put the past behind me but suddenly I found myself thinking hateful thoughts of my ex!" The reality is that until we truly process the feelings, issues or conflicts that brought about divorce it's difficult to put the past behind. Those [...]

Surviving or Thriving! Your Choice!

By |September 2nd, 2018|Categories: Blog, Divorce, Emotional Pain, Self Compassion|Tags: , , |

Surviving or Thriving – your choice  Surviving divorce is one of the most difficult, stressful, confusing, chaotic and painful times in life. Getting through the process is challenging and has many ups and downs. Some people go into denial blame shame or they start numbing –using: alcohol, exercise, TV, Facebook, pornography, [...]

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We are Enough and Perfect

By |July 11th, 2016|Categories: Blog, Emotional Pain, General, Self Compassion|

Enough and Perfect Psychologists, theologians, and spiritual teachers often espouse that we are enough and perfect as we are. This idea has been popularized most recently in the work of Brene Brown who's recent Ted Talk which focused on our human connection--that is, our ability to empathize, belong and love. Shame is the inner emotional [...]

How’s your love life?

By |June 21st, 2016|Categories: Divorce|

After my divorce people began asking me –“how’s your love life”? What they were asking about –was I dating anyone, had I found a new “love interest”? The love life that matters most –I discovered- is the one inside of me. Was I in a loving relationship with me? As with most people going through [...]