I am comfortable telling people I am separated from my love partner

I am physically and emotionally exhausted from morning until night

I am constantly thinking of my former Ex

I feel rejected by many of the friends I had when I was in the love relationship

I become upset when I think about my Ex

I like being the person I am

I feel like crying because I feel so sad

I can communicate with my Ex in a calm and rational manner

There are many things about my personaIity I would like to change

It is easy for me to accept my becoming a single person

I feel depressed

I feel emotionally separated from my Ex

People would not like me if they got to know me

I feel comfortable seeing and talking to my Ex

I feel like I am an attractive person

I feel as though I am in a daze and the world doesn't seem real

I find myself doing things just to please my Ex (or Soon To Be Ex)

I feel lonely

There are many things about my body I would like to change

I have many plans and goals for the future

I feel I don't have much sex appeal

I am relating and interacting in many new ways with people since my separation

Joining a singles group would make me feel I was a loser like them

It is easy for me to organize my daily routine of living

I find myself making excuses to see and talk to my Ex

Because my love relationship failed, I must be a failure

I feel like unloading my feelings of anger and hurt upon my Ex

I feel comfortable being with people

I have trouble concentrating

I think of my Ex as related to me rather than as a separate person

I feel like an okay person

I hope my Ex (or Soon To Be Ex) is feeling as much or more emotional pain than I am, or more

I have close friends who know and understand me

I am unable to control my emotions

I feel capable of building a deep and meaningful love relationship

I have trouble sleeping

I easily become angry at my Ex (or Soon To Be Ex)

I am afraid to trust people who might become love partners

Because my love relationship ended, I feel there must be something wrong with me

I either have no appetite or eat continuously which is unusual for me

I don't want to accept the fact that our love relationship is ending

I force myself to eat even though I'm not hungry

I have given up on my Ex and getting back together

I feel very frightened inside

It is important that my family, friends, and associates be on my side rather than on my Ex's (or STBX's) side

I feel uncomfortable even thinking about dating

I feel capable of living the kind of life I would like to live

I have noticed my body weight is changing a great deal

I believe if we try, my love partner and I can save our love relationship

My abdomen feels empty and hollow

I have feelings of romantic love for my Ex (or STBX)

I can make the decisions I need to because I know and trust my feelings

I would like to get even with my Ex for hurting me

I avoid people even though I want and need friends

I have really made a mess of my life

I sigh a lot