Seminar Testimonials2018-12-10T20:34:38+00:00

Testimonials from The Seminar

Helping You Through the Pain Before, During & After the Ending of a Relationship

rebuilding

“I would wholeheartedly encourage you to embrace Nick and the work and help that he provides so that you can walk a path to find yourself.”       -B.B.


“The Seminar helped me realize how much I was relying on other people to make me happy. No wonder my past relationships never worked out!” –Bob W.


“It was in about the fourth or fifth week when a lot of what I was learning came together for me, and the deep pain I had been in, started for the first time, to become manageable. As the Seminar went on, I found that I was able to become more focused at work and more attentive to my children’s needs”.  -Sally B.


“At the beginning of the Seminar I was struggling a lot. The Facilitator, my fellow students, and the homework made a huge difference. I really was not sure I would feel good again. Now, I feel better, and have a much clearer sense of how I stay out of struggle, and keep moving forward in a positive way”.   -Marilyn  D.


“Nick told me that we all go through the ending alone and that in order to heal and grow we cannot get through by ourselves. The huge amount of support I gained from the book, the teaching, the session with Nick and from my fellow students was amazing”.   -Melanie N.


“There was no Divorce Workshops available near where I live. I was skeptical that an online class could help. The Seminar, with the technology, made it very easy and accessible. All my questions were always answered. The facilitation and teaching were excellent. I made friends with several students – we talk weekly. All of us grew so much as a result of the Seminar”.  -Dan P


“The structured way that the Seminar was put together, helped me move through the initial pain, frustration and confusion. Even though I have benefited from therapy, this process made a big difference because I kept building a new foundation and new ways to become more adept at dealing with conflict and challenges”.   -Mary T


“I’m so thankful to have had the opportunity to have taken this journey with you and the class. It’s been very mind blowing and a real eye opener.”  –Mike
“Here are my thoughts about this class…

Before I made the decision to take this class, I was lost emotionally and mentally. I remember how isolated I was from the world because of the depression. I couldn’t believe that someday I will go through a divorce. I lost sense of self. I didn’t even know what my purpose in life is and why am I still here. I got to the point where I hated myself because of the feeling of rejection. It was like a nightmare I wasn’t sure if I would ever wake up from it. I have tried almost everything but nothing has helped me get through this struggle but this class. Nick did a great job in reaching out for those who are in need to get their life back. He helped me understand where I’m and why I’m feeling the way I was. Not only that but he also gave me the effective tools to develop a healthy inner self and to continue my life that way I would like it to be regardless of my past.   The wonderful people I met in this class have also impacted me tremendously. Sharing our divorce/separation experiences and everything that came with it has made me feel that I’m not alone. This group class was the best decision I’ve ever made and I feel so blessed to meet every one of you. Thank you all for your advice and the words of encouragement. I can now move on with my life and hope that I’ll continue fulfilling my purpose in this life.”      -Susan


“I believe the most impactful part of our seminar for me was, how it taught me about myself. I became aware that I mattered. I had completely lost myself throughout my life of marriage and kids. I had existed as a non-entity until now. I learned that I am worth focusing on, being taken care of, valued, and cherished. I am worth having a good time, laughing, and my feelings, thoughts and dreams matter! I am a kind and giving person, but I can also take care of ME now as well. I am stronger than I think I am, and I am ENOUGH! This will be a constant journey of self-worth for me, so please keep me in all of your prayers and thoughts. You are all forever with me! Thank you, Nick!!!!!!!!!! Thanks everyone.”  -Love Leisa


“Here are some of the most impactful benefits from this class for me:

Getting away from the obsessive/incessant thoughts and memories from the relationship ending.  I remember going into this program 27 years earlier thinking that nobody could feel as badly as I did at the time.  I soon found that was not true and everyone there was hurting no matter their circumstances.  The same was true again.  Being in a group setting, hearing others situations and issues, relating to them and growing through the crap together was very helpful for me.  Thanks to you all for being part of my experience.”   –WTR Anonymous


“Enrolling in Nick’s seminar literally saved my life.  I was in such pain and couldn’t stop crying even though almost a year had passed since my divorce.  My doctors recommended numerous books and prescribed countless prescriptions, but I was stuck in my grief.  The longer I was stuck, the more fearful I became.  It was a vicious cycle. My heart was squeezed so tight, I could barely breathe.  I never experienced such pain.  I was losing hope and wished I was dead.  I completed the Self-Test online and Nick immediately called to offer support.  I signed up for his 10-week course and not only did real healing begin, but Nick gave us valuable tools needed to move forward and build a more authentic life.  Everyone who participated in our seminar agreed it was life-changing.   Overall Satisfaction = 10. “  –WTR Anonymous


“I am several years removed from my divorce.  Still, this was a fabulous personal growth opportunity for me.     Nick is expert at setting an accepting tone to the class.  His patience and willingness to “wait” with us in silence as we process some of our most difficult experiences let me know that he valued each and everyone’s thoughts and feelings.  Nick is extraordinarily kind and able to empathize with those taking his workshop.  He enhanced Dr. Fisher’s work with several of his own activities and discussions.  One of these was the discussions of the Drama and Authentic Triangles.  I applied this not only to my separation/divorce experience, but also to many relationships in my personal and professional life.  I recommend this learning opportunity to all who has come through divorce and ask, “Now what? How can I find greater happiness and satisfaction in my life?”  –WTR Anonymous


“I would like to start by saying that in the beginning of my breakup, before deciding to go through with the divorce process, I was a very lost soul. We were married for such a long time. I didn’t know which way was up and was very frightened. I had very unusual circumstances for why my wife and I decided to get a divorce. Personally, I did not want to go through a divorce, I was in denial and there was a lot of hurt. One day my therapist suggested joining a local meet up website to try and connect to new people. I was browsing around and I found the [After Divorce Support] group. I went to the website and I filled out the questionnaire. I was then contacted and by my surprise I was invited to lunch and was given feedback based off my answers. I was a little suspicious about meeting with a group of strangers but I felt comfortable after the first night of the class. The emotions poured through and the healing process began. Not only did I participate in discussing my feelings, which I never do, but I also gained a sense of understanding and insight on why my marriage had ended. This process was not easy in the beginning but I allowed myself to share and really dig into who I am as a person and how to move on. I have gained many valuable friendships and a support group that may last the rest of my life. Nick and Tara, the group leaders, were very understanding and I admire what they do and what they continue to do considering they have been there themselves. Looking back, this was the best decision I have ever made. To be able to bond with others going through similar situations was very insightful and I learned so much. There is still so much to learn about life and my new journey being single again and now I have direction and the fear has become my strength to move on and maybe one day love again.”  -Everett


“When my husband left suddenly and I was new to Denver, I knew I needed help navigating the scary world of separation and divorce. I discovered the The Fisher Rebuilding Seminar through online research and believe this course not only sustained me during a difficult time but also provided key resources for building a life apart from one’s partner.   Nick Meima does a superb job of creating a safe space for thoughtful and meaningful exploration during a very fragile time in one’s life. The deliberate and intentional topics help those in distress make sense of what is happening and create new stories for how to create purposeful lives. It has been a time of growth, healing and tremendous encouragement.”  -M. Larma


“My overall experience [with] After Divorce Support was extremely insightful and educational in regards to the path back to the loving independent person I know I am.  Nick was inspirational in guiding fellow classmates through each week, and holding our hand along the path to becoming whole again.  I looked forward to meeting each week to learn from others and share my experiences.  There were times during the program Nick would reach out to check on participants and their well-being.  He went above and beyond what I expected.  I wish I had known about this seminar during earlier losses in my life because I feel inspired and now know that my healing has been accelerated as a result of this seminar.  It has been a lifesaver, literally.”   -Chris


“I feel very privileged to have been a participant in [the] After Divorce Support Seminar.  This seminar had a tremendous impact on my recovery and I so wished I had known about it earlier.  After Divorce Support taught me about the building blocks in recovery and provided me with a “road map” to help me navigate out of my depressed state into a position of empowerment.  It helped me develop an understanding of my past relationship and outlined what I needed to change in order to move forward in my life. This course was a life saver.   Thank you Nick!”  –WTR Anonymous


“Thank you Nick for a great class!  I really don’t know where I would have been without it.  So grateful I have moved away from the state of blame and victimization and so glad to feel empowered and ready to create a new life!”  -Kristin B


“Words cannot express the valuable insight I found during my workshop experience. I find myself stronger, much happier & less anxiety-ridden.  I believe processing every single emotion truly made the difference. I tell anyone going thru a split to invest in this class. The structure & support of people in the trenches with me, were priceless.  Thank u, thank u, thank u!  You really helped in leading me to the path toward healing.” – Anne N


“Great course and great value”  – R. Rummel